Sex Positions: Kamasutra, Getting ready to go pro

If you know anything about Kama Sutra, you know that it involves more than just interesting sexual positions, it also involves a certain amount of mental (or if you believe in it – spiritual) work as well as physical work.

I would say to truly do Kama Sutra justice you need to be with someone you care about and someone that you have a connection with. That does not mean that some people cannot truly connect in a short term or new relationship, because many are capable. All I am saying is that Kama Sutra is much more than just sex positions.

If you and your lover are interested in exploring the Kama Sutra here are some things you can work on to get ready to go pro.

Women: Advanced positions require great flexibility, so Yoga would be a great hobby to pick up. In addition, work up to about 100 kegels a day so you can hold the lingam tight. Work on your feminine sexiness, take up some sexy classes like belly dancing, fire dancing, pole dancing or any other class that can help you explore and become familiar with your female form.

Men: The “pro” positions can require a bit of strength, such as the standing positions where you hold the woman on your hips or with your arms, so build up your man muscles- your chest, shoulders and biceps as well as your thighs and thrusting muscles. So do some weight lifting, squats and lower abdomen work. You should work on becoming as hard and as strong as a tree trunk and become confident in your maleness.

Both: Meditation for mental clarity. Also work on building a trusting relationship where both partners feel loved and emotionally safe. No offense, but advanced Kama Sutra is difficult or impossible if you are chubby, so lose the extra weight, get strong and sexy. Plus if you are healthy and feeling good you are more comfortable with yourself and your body.

Well, if you are not in the best shape of your life yet, you can work on getting there by working on the easier positions in the Kama Sutra and enjoy those while you work on becoming the sexiest and strongest you can be.